Sexuality can be a complex subject. Some people go through their entire life feeling one thing, but acting out another. Many reasons contribute to this way of living…denial, fear, confusion and flat out ignorance to name a few. Numerous people will tell you that you're not actually gay unless you 'choose' to act on your same-sex curiosities. This statement, however, isn't complete. First of all, you don't get to hold the lesbian card just because you had one crazy fling with your BFF. Acting on sexual fantasies does NOT determine a persons sexuality. Yes, it's a good indicator, but that's all it is. Below, you will find some statements that may help you to clear up any lingering confusion you may have about your own sexuality…
Now, this isn't a full proof system to determine whether or not you are in fact a lesbian. These are just a handful of good indicators that you might want to weigh upon reflection of ones own sexuality. Coming to the realization that you're gay is not always a simple conclusion to reach. For most of us, denial prevents the truth from surfacing to even ourselves, for years. It is very important that you understand, you cannot choose what gender you will be drawn to. You cannot help it if you're not physically attracted to people of the opposite sex. You can't simply 'choose' your sexuality. All you can choose is whether to embrace it or deny it and hide it. If you're feeling depressed, afraid or alone please utilize the power of technology and reach out for support. No one should go down this road all by themselves.
If you imagine your best friend, Nancy, every time you kiss your boyfriend…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you get nauseous anytime someone uses the word 'penis'…You Might Be A Lesbian
If the thought of being intimate with a man makes you break out in hives…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you know how to change the oil in your own car and enjoy doing it…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you answer 'Ellen Degeneres' to the question, "Who is your hero?"…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you hide in your room with the door locked to watch lifetime movies like, "The Truth About Jane"…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you google the question, "How do you know if you're a Lesbian?"…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you were sober during your 'drunken make out session' with Susan…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you find yourself trying to guess the sexuality of every single female you encounter…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you routinely convince yourself that all women fantasize about about being intimate with other women on a regular basis…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you want to see every movie that features some form of lesbian content…whether it be a kiss, a conversation, or a 'drunken make out session'…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you get weirdly jealous of every single person that your best female friend hangs out with…You Might Be A Lesbian (and in love with your BFF)
If you really connected with the character, Darlene from Roseanne…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you put pictures of beautiful woman on your walls and cite the reason as, 'I appreciate all beauty', or 'I just love art'…You Might Be A Lesbian
If at school, you start rumors about yourself being the easiest girl in the world to impregnate and take it even further by telling people that your mom got pregnant with you while she was on birth control and your dad used a condom (obvious goal being to ensure that no man wants to chance sleeping with you for fear of becoming your 'baby daddy')…You Might Be A Lesbian
If a picture of Shane, from The L Word is your computers desktop background…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you wear men's cologne and/or deodorant…You Might Be A Lesbian
If when you step foot in a Baptist Church, the members migrate towards you like bugs to a light in order to help you save your soul…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you wear a hat more than 4 days a week…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you own multiple ties for those special 'dress up occasions'…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you own any of t.A.T.u.'s c.d.'s…You Might Be A Lesbian
If your top you tube video suggestions include 'Madonna and Britney Kiss' or 'Black Swan Trailer'…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you're uncomfortable changing in locker rooms because you worry that someone might think that you're checking them out if you look at anything other than the tile floor or inside of your locker…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you regularly buy flowers for your girlfriends, 'just because'…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you feel a need to follow up all compliments you give to women with the sentence, 'Not in a lesbian way, or anything'…You Might Be A Lesbian
If you read through all of these statements and 80% of them applied to you…YouMight BeAre A Lesbian
Now, this isn't a full proof system to determine whether or not you are in fact a lesbian. These are just a handful of good indicators that you might want to weigh upon reflection of ones own sexuality. Coming to the realization that you're gay is not always a simple conclusion to reach. For most of us, denial prevents the truth from surfacing to even ourselves, for years. It is very important that you understand, you cannot choose what gender you will be drawn to. You cannot help it if you're not physically attracted to people of the opposite sex. You can't simply 'choose' your sexuality. All you can choose is whether to embrace it or deny it and hide it. If you're feeling depressed, afraid or alone please utilize the power of technology and reach out for support. No one should go down this road all by themselves.
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